We’ll lay out the pros and cons of each method, and at the end of this video, I’ll be giving you my very FAVORITE conversation starter, that *I* personally like to use… So you want to stick around to the very end of this video to get your hands on that. Focus on feeling the fear when it comes up. Keep your body language open and inviting. It’s actually very easy, you just need to know what to do. That’s how I started conversations with girls a couple of years ago. I know that feeling of regret all too well, because it used to happen to me all the time. This is one of my favorite ways to start a conversation, because it cuts through the bullshit. Just click the link below and enter your email to get instant access to the first video: Click HERE to get instant access to my free video course on conversation and flirting. And if not? We go way back! Pick Up Lines: Find some lines that would really work on the girl. 2) Describe your dream vacation? Here are a few tips: I talk about this a lot, and for good reason. Many boys find it difficult to start a conversation with a girl or struggle to find a way to initiate a simple conversation. Learn to recognize them and listen to them when they pop up. Instead, focus on the present. You’ll meet more women you have chemistry with, go on more dates, and improve your conversation skills. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/0\/04\/Show-a-Woman-That-You-Care-Step-1-Version-5.jpg\/v4-460px-Show-a-Woman-That-You-Care-Step-1-Version-5.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/0\/04\/Show-a-Woman-That-You-Care-Step-1-Version-5.jpg\/aid655949-v4-728px-Show-a-Woman-That-You-Care-Step-1-Version-5.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":"728","bigHeight":"546","licensing":"

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